Dearest Sister Goddess,
For generations we’ve lived in chains. Knowing in our bones something was wrong but thinking it was us.
The despair, rage and numbness we feel is a natural response to a culture of violence.
But the time of the great changing is at hand. We are coming home.
I felt the awakening in my blood, the knowing I was meant for something much deeper than what I was being offered. The Goddess took my hand and brought me home.
Slowly I unpicked layer after layer of programming. I reclaimed my beauty, body and pleasure as the temple of my own enjoyment. I rediscovered my innocence, my wildness, my holy yes and hell no, and my capability to create the life of my dreams.
A woman in her power is a force of nature. I am nobody’s victim and neither are you.
Here are the truths that set me free. I offer them as a gift of loving service and my prayer for a world of empowered women leading all back home to love.
You are not here to be stressed, shamed and sad.
You are made of cosmic fire. You hold the power that makes the flowers bloom and the birds fly in every cell.
You already have everything you need within you to find your way home.
Female bodies are crying everywhere. So many of us are quietly suffering, the crippling cramps, debilitating periods, the numbness and dryness that makes intimacy ache.
We weren't born for our beautiful feminine bodies to be cages of misery.
Your body is not the enemy here.
Your body is wise. Your body knows how to heal. Your body wants to heal. Symptoms are teachers showing us where we need love.
Your body is your only home, your constant companion from your first to your last breath. Love it, listen to it, and watch how it responds.
We are shamed for our periods and told not to talk about them in polite company.
They are Earth magic. They connect you directly to the cycles of the moon. You hold the forces of all creation within your belly. The whole drama of life and death plays out within your form every month. Celebrate it.
You are made to ebb and flow like the tides. It’s normal to rise and retreat in energy, and harmonising with that flow unlocks your full flourishing.
Nobody is coming to save you. Change comes from within.
Magic is real and you have the power. What you cultivate within shapes what you experience without.
You are not a passive observer; you are an active participant in the dance of creation.
Take ownership of your energy and watch how life rises to meet you.
We’ve been taught to be pleasing, gentle and kind. To put everyone else’s needs first as a sign of virtue.
Letting yourself be bled dry is a mutilation, not a service.
It takes two to tango, and if you are getting mistreated you must take action to protect yourself. Nobody else can do it for you. You cannot accept unacceptable behaviour.
It hurts to let go of what felt precious, but that’s the only way to make the space for something better.
You set the standard of how you are treated, nobody else.
The world can only love and respect you as much as you love and respect yourself.
Nobody deserves your love more than you do.
Learn to pleasure yourself first. It’s nobody else’s responsibility.
How can anyone else please you if you don’t know how to please yourself?
This isn’t just in the bedroom, this is for all aspects of your life.
Love yourself like the magnificent queen you are and throw rose petals at your holy feet. You deserve it.
You were given your body as a temple of divine bliss.
That’s why you have an organ designed exclusively for ecstasy.
Your erotic energy is not just about sex. It is the force that births galaxies, grows flowers, and sparks new life into form. It is holy and pure.
It is your wellspring of vitality, creativity and healing. You cannot live fully without it.
Cultivating pleasure is plugging your battery into the holy source. It is nourishment. It is medicine. It is your birthright.
What a tragedy that we have been robbed of the holy power and direct portal to the divine held within our own bodies.
For generations our erotic energy has been used as currency. We’ve been stuck in a game that’s impossible to win.
But the tides are turning. This is the moment of returning home.
Your body is your temple. Cherish it as the holy of holies. Protect it like the most sacred of sites.
Our bodies have shut themselves down for protection. They need safety to unthaw, and only you can offer that.
With time and love and patience, the flower of your pleasure will bloom again and drip nourishing nectar that will radiate magic through every aspect of your life.
There is nothing wrong with you.
Look at yourself through the Goddess’ eyes. You are creation unique in all the world.
Your longings, your hunger, your wildness, everything about you is sacred. Your desires are divine instructions.
You are the goddess experiencing herself in the flesh.
You are Gaia in human form. You are the oceans and the volcanoes, the birds and the butterflies, a mystery of creation as magnificent as the stars.
And you are perfect exactly as you are.
Offered with love from my heart to yours.